From Dr. Elias Moore
45 • Seattle, WA • Child Psychologist • Works with High-Conflict Families
“Kids can’t tell you their trauma. They show it—in stomachaches, school refusal, or silence.”
I don’t work in courtrooms. I work in small rooms with toys and chairs too low for adults. Where kids fidget and try to explain things no child should be responsible for explaining.
My job isn’t to take sides. But every day I watch the fallout of unstructured divorces. Of parents who weaponize schedules. Of court systems that allow chaos to echo into the next generation.
I’ve seen six-year-olds who can recite visitation orders. I’ve seen teenagers who won’t talk to either parent. And I’ve seen far too many children learn that court is a place where they are evidence—not people.
What struck me about Splitifi wasn’t the tech—it was the structure. Divorce isn’t traumatic because it exists. It’s traumatic because it’s unmanaged.
When parents use Splitifi, I see a difference. The arguments shift from emotional firestorms to data-centered boundaries. The kids feel it. You can see it in the way they draw, speak, sit. They stop feeling like the rope in a tug-of-war and start feeling like they belong to both parents again.
Splitifi doesn’t solve emotional trauma. But it stops adults from making it worse. And for the children I work with, that’s everything.
—Dr. Elias Moore
