From Noah Becker
40 • Atlanta, GA • Commercial Pilot • Father of Two
“I thought getting divorced was the hard part. Turns out, staying coordinated is harder.”
My ex and I live in different states now. We have two kids, joint custody, and a calendar that feels like air traffic control.
I’m a pilot. I know how to plan for turbulence. But nothing prepares you for coordinating school pickups from 1,200 miles away—or tracking who sent what to which court on which date.
Our communication wasn’t hostile. It was fragmented. Texts, emails, forgotten attachments, last-minute flight changes. One missed message turned into a weekend custody violation. And suddenly, we were back in front of a judge.
I needed something to help keep the plane in the air—not just crash-proof it.
I found Splitifi while searching for co-parenting tech. What I liked wasn’t just the calendar—it was the intelligence. It syncs with my flight schedule. It tracks missed exchanges. It builds evidence without making me look like I’m building a case.
Now, we both use it. Not because we trust each other—but because we trust the system it creates. It’s not about blame. It’s about proof, structure, and peace of mind.
My kids don’t care which court filed what. They care who shows up. And thanks to this platform, I haven’t missed a birthday, a recital, or a single school report since we started.
—Noah
