Staying in a miserable marriage because you can’t afford to leave? You’re not alone. The average divorce costs $15,000–$30,000 — and most people don’t have that sitting in savings. But here’s the truth: you don’t need wealth to get free. You need strategy.
1. File for a Fee Waiver
Every state offers a way to waive the filing fee if you meet certain income criteria. It’s called an “indigency affidavit” or “fee waiver request.” You’ll need to submit proof of income and expenses — but the process is faster than most expect.
2. Represent Yourself (With Help)
Self-representation doesn’t mean going in blind. It means using tools instead of lawyers. Splitifi’s AI assistant can help you:
- Draft petitions, affidavits, and financial disclosures
- Build custody timelines and log violations
- Prepare mediation statements and hearing notes
You don’t need $400/hour for legal clarity — you need structure.
3. Use Free Legal Aid (Tactically)
Most counties have legal aid clinics that offer consultations, document help, and sometimes limited representation. Don’t expect full service — but you can get questions answered and documents reviewed.
4. Document Now — Settle Later
If you’re not ready to file, start preparing. Screenshot financial abuse. Track parenting behaviors. Organize documents. Use Splitifi’s custody tracker to create a timeline before the first motion ever hits.
5. Negotiate Smart — Not Fast
Even if you’re broke, don’t sign away everything for “peace.” Your ex might offer fast settlements that leave you without support or property. Get each proposal reviewed — even by a document prep service or paralegal — before you agree.
You Can Start Without Money — But You Need a Plan
Money helps. But it’s not the deciding factor. Strategy, documentation, and emotional discipline win most cases — not expensive attorneys.
Splitifi gives you the tools to move forward even when you’re overwhelmed, underfunded, and still figuring it out. Freedom has a cost — but we can help you make it manageable.
